20 Things You Need to Give Up if You Want to Be Happy

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The most important factor that prevents us from realizing our dreams is simply and unfortunately ourselves. We set limits every day, intentionally or not. However, there are many ways to mitigate these constraints.
Here are 20 things you need to get rid of if you want to be happy.

1. Approval of others.

Be satisfied with the decisions you make. Think of everything you could do if you stop giving importance to the opinions of others on how you live. Engage in all actions that you think can improve your life.

20 Things You Need to Give Up if You Want to Be Happy
2. Anger and resentment. 

Anger consumes you from the inside. Learn to make peace with those who have harmed you. Keep in mind that the one that irritates you controls the only you.

3. The negative image of your body. 

There is only one person who can express an opinion on your physical things, it is you. No one else has the right to judge if your physiognomy is "correct." Being well in your skin and healthy are the only things that matter.

4. The idea or expectation of the perfect partner. 

There is no ideal partner. The idealized image of the partner prevents us from advancing in life. Find the right person for you: the one you can enjoy thoroughly, with whom you feel comfortable and who accepts you as you are.

5. The perfect life. 

Just as for the partner, there is no perfect existence. Life is made up of the elements you choose. The choices you make will be reflected directly in the life you lead. So it's up to you to create your best of all possible worlds.

6. The idea that you will become rich. 

Too many people live by thinking that they will one day be millionaires. Even if it is a realistic goal for some people, it is not something that can be achieved without hard work and without dedication. Stop thinking that money is the only motivating factor. Find a career that fascinates you and dedicates yourself complement to it.  

7. The idea that luck will come knocking on your door. 

You must venture into the world and actively seek your fulfillment. Do not wait for things to happen on their own. Try to enjoy the life you lead and be grateful for things you already have. Value every minute and every day. Think of living as if tomorrow did not exist and make the most of each situation. 

8. The apology. 

No room for excuses. You want to work, but you do not have the time? So wake up earlier. The excuses are only rationalizations that allow you to feel better about yourself. Want results? Stop ranting and take action.

9. Thinking about your ex. 

If that person is your ex, there must be a reason for that. If you think of her or him constantly, try to learn lessons. Do not dwell on past feelings as this will prevent you from being happy with someone else.

10. Obstinacy. 

It may be hard to admit, but you have a few complementing wrong. The less you will be stubborn, the more you will be open to learning new things. Think of all the things you could live if you stopped taking into account the opinions of others.

11. Procrastination. 

Stop thinking that you can do any task the next day. Live in the present moment and do your work at the time it needs to be done. Maximize your time according to your abilities and perform each task as soon as you can. This will allow you to feel free from any anxiety or stress and to benefit from more free time to enjoy the things you love.

12. Your luggage. 

You were all at one time or another hurt by someone you loved or thought you loved. Having negative feelings about your future relationships can be disastrous. There are not two similar people. It is, therefore, unfair to consider a future partner according to a norm defined by a relation with an ex.

13. Negativity.

What you project in the universe comes back automatically. So change the way you think right away. Stop seeing life as a half empty glass but see it instead as a half-full glass. Take time to observe the array of things you can be grateful for. For a positive mind, anything is possible.

14. The judgments. 

You have no idea what is actually happening in the lives of others, so who are you to judge how they act? If you spend more time dealing with your own actions and feelings, then your lives would certainly make more sense.

15. Jealousy. 

Stop envying others and enjoy the things you have. All life is unique, and you surely have things to offer that others not. When you feel jealous, all you do is fill your existence with negative feelings.

16. Insecurity. 

Happy people tend to have an extremely high level of self-esteem. They accept what they are, radiate confidence, display their pride and release positive waves. There is no reason to feel insecure and if there are things that complicate you, try to change them. Only in this way will you have the ability to create the best version of yourself.

17. Depend on others for your happiness. 

At the end of the day, the only person you can count on is ultimately you. Do not make the mistake of placing your happiness in the hands of others. A relationship will not help you live better and will not make you happier. You must reach happiness by yourself before you find someone else to share it.

18. The past. 

Stop living in the past. You will gain nothing by focusing on previously committed mistakes. Rather, learn lessons and progress.

19. The need for control. 

It is sometimes necessary to let life flow as it should. You can not spend all the time trying to have control over items that are out of your reach. Relax and let things evolve naturally. Embrace the unknown because it will surprise you the most. Let yourself be embarked on the unexpected and enjoy the excitement it will bring you.

20. Expectations. 

Knowing how to manage your expectations is the key to happiness. If you relax your expectations, you will never be disappointed. Do not expect a particular result for a given situation. Experience the things of life with openness. Immerse yourself in complement without preconceived ideas.

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