11 Rules for Being Alone and Happy

Why does it seem so complicated to be happy? Yes, I've asked myself that too many times. Maybe it happens to me like that, the famous &q...

Why does it seem so complicated to be happy? Yes, I've asked myself that too many times. Maybe it happens to me like that, the famous "comfort zone" is not enough, but rather, it is an "uncomfortable comfort."

11 Rules for Being Alone and Happy
Life is a rise and fall of situations where sometimes we find some disappointments; In love, in friendship and even with the same family. 

UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE THE SUFFICIENTLY WELL BEING ALONE:

You are a valuable person, and you do not need the approval of anyone else to make that true. When you are alone, remember that is why you decided. It really is an option. It is very easy to find someone to pass the time, but when you have high standards for the people you allow in your life, you are saying that you are better alone than with someone who is not a great compliment to you.

VALUE THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS; BUT VALUE MUCH MORE YOURS:

Do not ask for advice unless you really need it. Instead, ask yourself. If you knew the answer to the problem you have, what would it be? That's your answer. The more time you spend asking yourself for advice, the less you start to need the input of others. When you trust yourself to solve problems, you become a much stronger and more confident person, and you face challenges that you could not have overcome before.

LEARN TO BE AN OBSERVER:

Always be convinced that if you do not go for something, it is because you do not feel interested enough; So take a good look at things or people before accepting them in your life. To really enjoy being alone, learn to look at ordinary situations with new points of view. Go to the park and watch people play with their children or their dogs. Go to the store and see how people buy their stuff. Wherever you go, make an effort to understand the other people around you. Learning how people operate when they think no one is watching will make you feel more connected to them.

CLOSE YOUR EYES IN A DARK ROOM AND ENJOY SILENCE:

The world is a busy place, and unless you take a moment to get away from it from time to time, it is easy to forget how beautiful it is to simply sit alone and enjoy your own company. Take a moment and sit quietly in a dark room. Listen to everything that is not happening around you. You can learn a lot about yourself when you are less busy. Those times when there is nothing that distracts you from the thoughts and feelings that you deny yourself during working days.

APPRECIATES EVERY INTERACTION WITH OTHERS:

Most people tend to experience some kind of tragedy before we begin to understand how short our time is in this world. It takes a few rounds around the sun, and suddenly everything is over. Only time is necessary. Only time is precious. But so is the one shared with others. There is nothing worse than an annoying person. There is nothing worse than an annoying situation. If you ever get bored, it's because you're not paying attention. This is a problem with you, not with your surroundings. Take an interest in every person who comes into your life, even for a second. Listen carefully to what they tell you. Be very careful what you do. Try to understand them as people.

LEARN TO TALK WITH YOURSELF:

They say that it is perfectly normal to talk to yourself; You're just crazy if you respond. When you spend a lot of time with other people, it becomes very easy to ignore your inner voice, but when you are alone, it is your only company. This voice whispers in your ear. The way you talk to yourself when there is no one else around; It will shape the way you project yourself to the outside world. In the same way, it is wise to stay away from friends who are negative and who distort your voice in a negative view. When you are alone, it can sometimes be difficult to assume a positive attitude, but you must be kind to yourself.

REORGANIZE YOUR THINGS:

When you are alone, it is easy to fall into monotony. It is easy to stagnate and feel as if things rarely change. And when you are alone, things will rarely change, unless you make an effort to make it happen. The problem is that a significant change is difficult, and what 's hard rarely starts. To keep things moving, what you have to do is keep things updated. And to keep things updated, it's best to look for small victories that can lead to bigger ones. Rearranging your stuff by yourself does not make sense, but it will get you out of the rut; As it is very easy to fall into the rut when you stay alone.

AVOID CONSUMPTION WITHOUT SENSE:

When you are alone, you have an incredible opportunity to think clearly about your life and the direction you want to take. In a world that is often noisy, you have remained quiet. This is a moment to reaffirm what is the path of your life. Are you happy and satisfied? Should you do what you're doing? Or do you feel dissatisfied? Should you change into something? These are questions that you can only answer when you appreciate the gift of stillness. Instead, if you spend your time with mindless entertainment like TV, movies, surfing the web at random, then it will be difficult to answer these questions.

CREATE, SET UP and BELIEVE:

Creating is one of the most important things you can do in your life. To be able to create among a multitude of people (or even a single person) who divert your attention is one of the most difficult things in life. When you are alone, the only thing that can prevent you from creating art is you. All the excuses are gone. When you are alone, you can immerse yourself in your work. When you immerse yourself in your job, you can be sure that you are creating something really meaningful. Your other option is to ignore that call to create and, instead, seek comfort in temporal things in which you will not see any kind of results.

MAKE PLANS FOR THE FUTURE AND GET STARTED TO ACHIEVE THEM:

It is almost impossible to feel good about your life if you have not given it any direction. When you meet someone, it is usually relatively easy to notice if they have a T-shirt that says they are happy, or if they are wandering aimlessly, looking for something to pursue. The purpose for your life does not have to be complex. It does not have to be big or overwhelming. You just need to be present. Once you are there, it becomes much easier to make plans that you can take action on them. Follow these plans immediately. Do not give up. Do not expect the perfect opportunity. The perfect never comes, and the longer you wait, the harder it will be to begin. 

SEE ONLY THE CINEMA:

You have to get used to doing things on your own, things that society says are made for two. Go see a movie for yourself and enjoy the picture. Enjoy a good dinner yourself. Go for a walk alone and learn to enjoy yourself too. This will be difficult at first. If you are used to going out with other people, then you will wonder what you should do with yourself when you are alone. Do not try to stay in the comfort zone. Accept it. And then laugh at it, because who actually said that we can not do these things ourselves? Also, to really enjoy these things with others, you have to learn to enjoy them alone.

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