Confessions of Premature Love – Too Good to be True?

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Confessing your love to that special someone can be nerve racking. If you feel shy and embarrassed in front of your partner, don't do hurry. Take your time to confessed your love in the most meaningful, captivating way possible. Remember you can never be sure of the response that you will get.
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Confessions of Premature Love
During a New Year’s party I attended last year, I met a guy who just started dating the girl who was friends with the host of that party. She is in her mid-thirties, attractive and funny. She just started dating him a few weeks earlier and was quite excited about going out with him. I too very much enjoyed talking to him, and he struck me as an interesting and funny guy. At the end of the conversation, I told him that I enjoyed meeting him, to which he responded: “Oh… I am pretty sure that I will see you here during the next year’s party”.

I told him that I was really surprised to hear him say that since he just met this girl a few week ago and it couldn’t possibly be clear how serious they were about each other. He assured me, however, that he was the kind of guy who knew what wanted, and he was certain she was “the one.” I was naturally skeptical of that kind of premature confidence, but I also admired his ability to be so sure of himself. I ran into that girl a month later and found out that they no longer saw each other, as he stopped returning her phone calls.

The above incident was an important reminder that premature love confessions often don’t mean much or don’t mean anything. If a guy says to you how he feels about you way too soon, before he got a chance to get to you enough to be able to form an informed opinion of who you are, you should probably take his words with a large grain of salt. If a guy tells you that he loves you on your second or third date, it should be somewhat alarming to you, because it can only mean one of the three things. 

Below are the three things mentioned:
  • He is super lonely and desperate and having found you, he is so eager to keep you, that he will say anything to have you around;
  • His words don’t really mean much to him, and that’s why he uses them in such a cavalier manner. He doesn’t put too much thought or weight into expressing his feelings, and therefore, his premature love confessions don’t really back up any real feelings;
  • He is just trying to get laid sooner than later and will do or say anything to get there.
Many women out there are frustrated because the guy they have seen for a while wouldn’t tell then how he feels about them and won’t use the magic “L” word. While this frustration is understandable, once that guy says that he loves you, he is much more likely to mean it, and that’s why it took so long for him to feel comfortable enough to tell you that.

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